Relationships, Love, and Marriage Vs Being Single – Top 17 Joys of Being Single

Pressure from sociological forces such as TV programming, movies, advertising, family, and friends dictate that you must pair off for a long-term relationship and join the herd or “couples only” club.

While this is easy for those who happen to be fated to have a relationship with a compatible, long-term partner, what about everyone else?

Based on our extensive empirical research, you meet who you’re meant to meet when you’re meant to meet them. For those who don’t meet “the one” before age 30, 40, or whatever other age they feel they’re supposed to secure a “permanent” partner, it can cause a lot of anxiety and even depression.

If you’re single, rather than focusing on what you don’t have in your love life, we recommend embracing the benefits; there are many of being on your own, and we list some of them below.

1) Freedom. As a single person, you can do what you want, when you want. Yes, in a karmic sense, everything you do, say, and intend comes back to you either in this life and more often in a future life, but when you’re single you aren’t accountable to anyone else.

2) No compromising. Even people in compatible relationships need to compromise occasionally. As a single person, you don’t need to surrender anything unless you choose to.

3) More time to focus on other areas of your life. Career, health, friendship, and other goals can take center stage with all the energy you need to accomplish them.

4) No in-laws. As a single person, there are no obligations to spend time with people you may not really want to.

5) Solo vacations are fun (you meet more people).

6) If you live alone, your space is yours to do with as you please.

7) You can live out your fantasies, within ethical and legal boundaries, and no one will try to stop you or tell you that you are “wrong” if they don’t happen to agree.

8) You never have to deal with telling someone it’s over and having them try to guilt you into staying together.

9) No pressure to perform in bed when you don’t feel like it.

10) You can flirt with anyone you want and not feel guilty.

11) You never have to be concerned or anxious about whether or not your partner is living up to his or her promises when you’re not around.

12) You can be intimate with who you want, when you want (responsibly and safely, of course).

13) Being single means you’re operating in your flow, at your pace, and you’re not psychically blown off course by another person.

14) No pressure to do what you’re “supposed to” do on holidays (e.g., Valentine’s day, etc.).

15) No emotionally unhealthy reliance on others to be your “everything,” which always leads to disappointment, or pressure from another to fulfill all their their needs.

16) Your m.o.n.e.y is your m.o.n.e.y and you aren’t responsible for a partner who may not make good financial choices.

17) Everyone changes and evolves at different rates. Because you’re single, you don’t have to put your relationship ahead of your spiritual growth, or feel guilty about leaving a partner behind if they choose not to be the best they can be or if you’ve grown apart to the point of no return.

If you mistakenly buy into the myth that you need a partner to be happy, being single can be lonely at times. But on a spiritual and soul level, you are never really alone, so enjoy your days of being single while you can.

Copyright © Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo

Mystic Channeling

For all intents and purposes the word channeling is used to define several different types of activities that are performed. This word is commonly associated with science because it can be used to describe the process that provides a constraint for the path that will be taken by the charged particle through a crystalline solid.

Channeling can be used when people are speaking on the subject of law also. In matters of law this term describes the delegation of responsibilities from one organization to another organization by way of a legal document like a contract.

Channeling is used when people are discussing the automotive aspects of lowering the body of an automobile. This is also referred to as chopping the vehicle but not to be confused with a chop shop that strips the saleable parts from a vehicle for profit.

Channeling is used when you are discussing spiritism and this may be the most common way that people hear the term or phrase used. In this context when someone says this phrase they are referring to the activity of a psychic allowing the messages, and the knowledge that is contained in a spirit or entity that inhabits a different realm from ours to come through them and make contact with people in our world.

This is done by all manner of psychically gifted individuals. Some of them see and hear the “ghosts” for lack of a better term, and some of them simply feel the presence and sense the answers to the questions that are put to the entity. There are mediums that go into a trance and speak for the beings from the other dimension, and there are mediums that use tarot cards, or crystals to reveal the secrets they are being told.

The one thing that all people who have these abilities share is that they are extremely intuitive, and they are very sensitive individuals. You cannot develop psychic powers without having an open mind and allowing the forces of energy that want to make communication to feel as if they are able to work through you. These individuals also have very positive outlooks and attitudes.

Negative thoughts and actions are not conducive to positive reactions from humans or from beings that are in another place and time. You cannot look at the world negatively and see the beautiful reality of guidance and direction that these beings have to share with you. That is why when you find a person that has a negative outlook on life you will find a person that is cynical, unhappy in most areas of their life, generally lonely, and afraid. They are usually not successful in their careers or in their personal relationships.

Karma, Spirituality, and the US Congress – 7 Examples of Misconduct

We define karma as life rewards and challenges earned mostly from past life and partly from current life actions. This philosophy includes the notion that everything you say, do, and intend has direct consequences.

The United States Congress includes 100 senators and 435 members of the House of Representatives. These 535 distinguished men and women are elected to regulate, restrict, and authorize toward the general defense and well-being of the United States, including endorsing taxation and government spending legislation.

Yet most polls routinely show Congressional approval ratings below 20%. Many of these officials, democrats and republicans, have had their own personal transgressions, although they enact laws and regulations to keep you in line.

Please understand that we aren’t “anti-government” and that we love the United States of America, along with upstanding civil servants. We simply despise the tyranny of big-spending, dubious bureaucrats.

Below we list seven examples of unruliness by your elected officials in Washington (these figures are from 1992 to 1999*), and related possible karmic consequences. It should be noted that these statistics exclude those clever enough to evade detection.

1) 19 members of the U.S. congress have arrest records for fraud, theft, or shoplifting. Sure, there are legal hassles and fines to contend with involving these crimes. But our findings with past life regression, psychic work, and comprehensive astrological and numerological charting show that spiritual law always demands reprisal, often times beyond what powerful, very well-paid, star criminal defense attorneys are able to negotiate. Whether in this life or a future one, these 19 politicians will be ripped off in equal proportion to their current life crimes, no matter how many favors they do for lobbyists and special interests.

2) 19 members have been indicted for writing bad checks. This is after the House bank was closed, which permitted, in the early 1990s, twenty-two congressmen and women to leave their House checking accounts overdrawn for at least eight months (longest was over 30 months).

Interestingly, these same representatives run through government funds in a comparable way (like it is monopoly money). Therefore, we project that they may end up in a lifetime far in the future where they are forced to live within their means.

They will also have to repay or cope with the results of the reckless spending of your tax dollars. The motivation of their negligent conduct unquestionably is habitually rooted in complicity with select activists and power-brokers (and their clients-Organized crime–oh, sorry, we mean Organized Labor, Insurance, Health, Financial, Environmental, Immigration, and other big “screw-the-taxpayer-we’re-in-it-for-ourselves-and-or-politics-despite-appearances” lobbies) that get them elected. Never mind that they’re supposed to be representing you, the hard-working, honorable citizen.

Rest assured that those who promote wasteful government spending, commonly to get re-elected, thereby helping to decimate the economy, will find themselves in a special place in a future life.

3) 29 have been accused of spousal abuse. What goes around comes around and we expect the guilty parties won’t like being on the other side of that exchange.

4) 21 were defendants in civil lawsuits involving assorted discrepancies. Getting off without penalty, if guilty, only happens in the mundane world. Spiritually speaking, nefarious actions will come back to you. We hope they cope with the karma constructively in the future.

5) More than 70 members of the U.S. Congress would not be able to obtain an American Express card without the help of the government (no credit checks for U.S. Congress members to receive a government-issued American Express card). Imagine that–your credit is so bad you can’t get a credit card, but since you hustled your way to the top of the political field, it doesn’t matter if you have bad credit. The demands of fiscal responsibility are beyond these people, but in a karmic sense, they will have to balance the energy at some point (sigh).

6) Over 100 members have guided at least one business to bankruptcy. Although the law allows you to evade creditors in such cases, if you view this scenario from the perspective of karma, you always must pay the debts, even if it takes you 100 lifetimes. Good luck to them.

7) Department of Defense Security clearances are automatically extended to the members of the U.S. congress. However, more than 50 of these politicians would be denied access if they had applied as regular civilians due to trouble with the law and other, more personal concerns. Hoodwinking the public to get elected might seem innocent enough, but there’s a heavy divine price to pay for deception.

We absolutely acknowledge that there exist honest politicians. But next time you see a news interview with a U.S. congress member, there’s a good chance he or she has, in some way, held special interests above yours, not to mention voted on various measures to spend the U.S. government into bankruptcy.

Laws can be sidestepped, and often are, not just by politicians. There are no consequences for ripping off or otherwise harming someone if you’re sneaky enough, at least that’s what many members of the U.S. Congress appear to believe. Join us in sending them infinite, healing, white Light. They are going to need it. We also suggest you contact your elected officials and demand term limits.

“The inside operation of Congress – the deals, the compromises, the selling out, the co-opting, the unprincipled manipulating, the self-serving career-building – is a story of such monumental decadence that I believe if people find out about it they will demand an end to it.” Bella Abzug, former U.S. Congresswoman and leader of the Women’s Movement.

*public records research courtesy of

Copyright © 2009 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo